HEY COME ON FORGIVE YOURSELF FOR THE TIMES WHEN YOU FORGOT YOUR SELF WORTH
You are well aware that forgiveness is an important part of letting go and moving on.
Over time you have learned that it is the only way to true liberation and complete salvation.
And you continue to forgive those who have harmed you.
Again and again, you accept the excuses you never got because you are a friendly and loving person who can not remain unforgiving for long.
But what about you? Why do not you treat yourself that way?
Why are you holding grudges against yourself? Why do not you find the strength to forgive yourself?
Because that’s exactly what you should do.
It’s time to forgive yourself every time you allow someone to break your heart. Because that was never your fault.
You have always loved as much as you can, and those who have taken advantage of your love are the only ones who should be ashamed of their deeds.
For every time you settle for less than you deserve.
Because now you know what you do not want in life. Now you know that you are made for bigger things and for more valuable people.
Forgive yourself for picking up the wrong people and for not leaving them in time.
For giving them infinite second chances and for justifying those who have done you harm. For not knowing any better and not having learned from your past mistakes.
Forgive yourself for all the times in which you have implored the love and attention of someone.
For each time you allow an asshole to make you wonder why you are not good enough and compare yourself to all the other girls in your life.
For every time you ran after people. In all those sleepless nights, you’ve tried to decode a man’s signals and understand what he wanted you to do.
Because you do not know that a real man will never make you run after him.
Forgive yourself for all those times when you were hoping someone would change and become a better person.
That you did not know that sometimes love is not enough to make someone change, until he decides to do it himself.
For all the times you tried to save people who did not want to be saved.
Trying to fix all those broken men and not knowing that sometimes they are not emotionally unreachable – they’re just assholes.
Forgive yourself for giving more than you got back for it. For putting all your efforts into relationships that were doomed to failure.
That you were the only one who tried to get it without any recognition, if not nothing. That you were ready to move mountains for the people who would never have made a finger for you.
For each time you loved someone more than you loved yourself, and every time you did not prioritize yourself.
For putting the needs of others before your own and not being selfish, even though you should have.
Stop blaming yourself for all those times when you did not appreciate yourself, and for all the times you allowed others to treat you the way they wanted.
For all times when you have not seen that you are important and for all the times when you have not seen your true value.
Instead, be proud of the fact that you have always worn your heart on the tongue. Be proud to always be the good and never hurt anyone.
But above all, be proud of you for always doing your best. That you have always tried and always taken a risk, even if you probably should not have done it.
Be proud of yourself that you are always honest and loyal. For the fact that you were never afraid of love or afraid of giving everything without expecting anything in return.
Be proud of your strength and power. Be proud of the fact that you have survived every heartache and that you have always managed to stand up when trying to strike you down.
See each of your scars as a reminder of the things you’ve been through and as a reminder that you’ve always managed to rise and pick up the pieces of your broken heart.So, instead of blaming yourself, please take everything that has happened to you as a valuable lesson and valuable experience.
Because, believe me – not many can do that.